"Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change." ~ Wayne W. Dyer
The definition of Reticular Activation is this: The ascending reticular activating system (ARAS), also known as the extra thalamic control modulatory system or simply the reticular activating system (RAS), is a set of connected nuclei in the brains of vertebrates that is responsible for regulating wakefulness and sleep-wake transitions. So there you go, needed to get that part out of the way. Where am I going with this? Glad you asked!
RAS has many functions and one of them is filtering for all our five senses. Your conscious mind can take in far less data than your unconscious mind. In fact, the mind processes about 2 million bits of information per second!! Thanks to the RAS though, we are able to consciously process a faction of that (about 120 bits per second. Phew!
I know you're wondering, why is that relevant? Because you need your unconscious mind to be working for you to make it possible to shape your reality by focusing on the things that are important.
So, here’s the practical application examples:
1. When you bought your last car and if you researched that car, test drove that car, shopped for that car, did you notice that afterwards that you saw this car on the road at a far higher frequency? The reason for that is your RAS or filter allowed your brain to pull that focus to the top. There were NOT more cars of this kind around you than before you told your brain this was of interest, but your RAS was set to bring them into focus, Top of Mind. Make sense?
2. A second example might be when you hear a strange word you’ve never heard before, BUT then you hear it again and again. Is that just a coincidence? No. It’s your RAS at work. Your filter is bringing it forward.
3. What about a song you like that you are playing often and suddenly it’s now being played everywhere, you hear it in stores, when driving, etc. RAS again at work.
4. What about when you had a baby? Whether man or woman here, as a new parent you were in baby stores, checking out furniture, you were talking to everyone about the baby coming, you were on line shopping for baby stuff, reading baby books, going to the baby dr. and you were certain it was the perfect time to have a baby because from your seat it appeared the world was pregnant around you, as if an epidemic? No. RAS at work here.
Did you know that your conscious mind only controls 15% of what you actually do? The other 85% is handled by your subconscious mind. Look at those figures. 15% of your conscious thoughts and actions are now going to handle your path to success, while the other 85%, the part that believes you will fail, will control the rest of your path to success. If you are counting on your conscious mind to control your life, without reprogramming your subconscious mind, you are fighting a losing battle.
When you get up in the morning and you begin your routine what are you thinking about?
What if you were thinking about all the SALES you are going to make that day?
What if when you got dressed, part of your routine was to put 12 business cards in your pocket with the belief that you will find 12 new people a day to hand them to and to share what you do?
What are the opportunities within a day to find 12 people that you believe would want to help you make a sale?
What if I told you to put 25 business cards in your pocket per day and that for every person you gave one to, you also handed them a second or even third card and said, “I build my real estate business on referrals and would appreciate your help sharing that I do real estate for a living”?
Would these people want to “help” you? (key word) – TIP- Use human words when selling. People innately want to “HELP” people.
So, let’s name people in your inner sphere of influence that you might hand a card to every day starting with you leaving your driveway on your way to work:
The guy/gal at the convenient store where you stop for gas and gum.
The guy/gal at the coffee shop and all their co-workers.
The teachers at your sons/daughter’s school.
The other parents at your sons/daughter’s school.
Your mechanic and all his/her coworkers.
Your landscaper and all his/her coworkers.
Your hairdresser and all his/her coworkers.
Your child’s sports coach and all his peers. The parents of the kids on your child’s team.
Your handy man.
Your mail man/woman.
All the neighbors on your street.
All the people in the businesses on your street.
All your friends and their friends.
Your family.
Your parents friends.
Your friend’s families.
Your veterinarian and all their coworkers.
Your Dr. and all their coworkers.
Your child’s pediatrician and all their coworkers.
Your dentist and all their coworkers.
Your dermatologist and all their coworkers.
Your spa and all their employees.
THE LIST IS ENDLESS!!!!
So, my final question is truly simple in applying this system and bringing SALES to the Top of YOUR Mind and RAS. Is Sales at The Top of Your Mind every day? Because, when you begin to realize that sales are all around you and that people you give business to and interact with want to “help” you, then you will have it come to your mind constantly. It’s up to YOU to feed your unconscious. We SEE what we want, it’s the basic Law of Attraction and in truth the Law of Attraction can’t work without RAS and RAS can’t work until you feed it what you want. It’s really that simple.
Bonus Tip: (Using Real Estate Agent Sales as an example, but is applicable to any type of product sales.) What do you think is at Top of Mind for your clients who are buying or selling a home? Their RAS is having them be aware of all of those people around them at work, neighbors, family members and friends who are also buying and selling a home. Thus your greatest place to gain referrals is the current customer you are working with. THEY have referrals. THEY know who around them is doing what they are doing right now AND you are displaying your impeccable knowledge and service right now, so asking them to refer you should be pretty simple.
As you consider sales differently, you might want to think about all the sale from these wonderful people you get to meet as a result.
Sales make seem hard, but it is not for the lazy. If you are smart and you have any kind of work ethic, there is endless money waiting for you!
Good luck!
Oh the power of the human mind!
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